tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post113863471483557257..comments2023-05-10T08:43:17.593+01:00Comments on Ramblings of an Altruist: I'm happy for you, but...PseudoRandomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01993144590186704387noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-28300469418130359482009-10-07T13:14:07.110+01:002009-10-07T13:14:07.110+01:00The thing is, people never really listen or stop t...The thing is, people never really listen or stop to understand until and unless whatever you warn them actually happens to them. <br /><br />It's sad but the whole 'Nah, I think it's different with me' notion dominates most =)Sabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00466454275587313040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-1139149120957788322006-02-05T14:18:00.000+00:002006-02-05T14:18:00.000+00:00I think you should warn her to be wary and not be ...I think you should warn her to be wary and not be caught up in the whole love rush. Tell her to chose her steps carefully and not read into what he says too much. Tell her not to assume anything. Running of a ledge is both a way of getting hurt as well pushing the guy away.<BR/><BR/>If you have reason to believe that the guy is not the best for her though, you should let her know. As a friend you are obliged to tell her, and she is obliged to hear you out.<BR/><BR/>Make sure what you say/do is limited to advice though. You shouldn't take a more active role than that!<BR/><BR/>Just my 2p, hope it helps :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-1138901810890701852006-02-02T17:36:00.000+00:002006-02-02T17:36:00.000+00:00i like annonymous bt i ges i'll let u kno who i am...i like annonymous bt i ges i'll let u kno who i am... Dimuthu (D.T) reporting for duty ma'am! And i kno very well that v all need a lil bit of remindin indhala hitala with things like that.. keep the faith sis.. and keep it realAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-1138811213588258552006-02-01T16:26:00.000+00:002006-02-01T16:26:00.000+00:00Lessons are best learned by yourself. It's harsh, ...Lessons are best learned by yourself. It's harsh, but true. People in love are blind to the admonitions (believe me i know) and the best thing you could do as a friend is passively warn but don't come in between them...you might be turned upon before she realised you were just looking out for her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com