tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post3393597197671134936..comments2023-05-10T08:43:17.593+01:00Comments on Ramblings of an Altruist: An obligatory Valentine's Day postPseudoRandomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01993144590186704387noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-42358327349386341262009-10-11T11:58:22.248+01:002009-10-11T11:58:22.248+01:00I was told (over and over again) that I need someo...I was told (over and over again) that I need someone to complete me. No they weren't telling me...it was apparently how I functioned.<br />Bollocks, I say. I have been single for months now and yes, I malfunctioned here and there but I am still here and kicking! =DSabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00466454275587313040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-38351390290713787622009-02-15T18:46:00.000+00:002009-02-15T18:46:00.000+00:00Gehan - hehe yeah, pretty weak :P But yes, I know ...Gehan - hehe yeah, pretty weak :P But yes, I know what you mean :-). And if I'm not whole when I'm 80, it'll be time for me to check out the dudes in the old folks' home! ;-)<BR/><BR/>Mak - :-)<BR/><BR/>Dee - Oh yeah I know, my point was that you don't have to be with someone in order to love yourself. And thanks for the link - very interesting! :-)PseudoRandomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01993144590186704387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-709662115077082942009-02-14T16:00:00.000+00:002009-02-14T16:00:00.000+00:00good post luvvie. But tht doesnt mean u can't ...good post luvvie. But tht doesnt mean u can't find and love urself with someone. :) but i do get what u mean..hey i found an interesting deshana...thought u might like to c it..http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KEuBJUSlRWI&feature=related watch from split 1 ok :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-67072550487990092032009-02-14T14:55:00.000+00:002009-02-14T14:55:00.000+00:00Here here! ;)Here here! ;)Makuluwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06644141967808925811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-17553954689374555112009-02-14T14:53:00.000+00:002009-02-14T14:53:00.000+00:00hahaha well they can be pretty insistent, i admit,...hahaha well they can be pretty insistent, i admit, but its like wishing someone happy new year.. they're not forcing you to have one, but heck it would be great if you did... <BR/><BR/>ok weak analogy, but u kno what i mean..<BR/><BR/>no?<BR/><BR/>bugger... :D<BR/><BR/>n if ur 80 n NOT whole, then what?! :PGehanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16299640465175652895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-51423784705365346062009-02-14T14:33:00.000+00:002009-02-14T14:33:00.000+00:00Gehan I'm inclined to think that you're giving soc...Gehan I'm inclined to think that you're giving society slightly more credit than it deserves in this case! But perhaps that's just my cynicism coming through.<BR/><BR/>I'm guessing that by "<I>head over heels for someone</I>" you're implying that the 'someone' reciprocates that feeling. As for whether it's possible to be 'whole' without that feeling...ask me when I'm 80 ;-)<BR/><BR/>And if society just wants us to be happy, why don't they just let us be, without all this pressure?PseudoRandomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01993144590186704387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-80103838734018992102009-02-14T13:46:00.000+00:002009-02-14T13:46:00.000+00:00while i am the last person to side with 'society',...while i am the last person to side with 'society', i think the reason ppl are so eager to see others fall in love is the beauty of the whole experience.. its not even so much actually HAVING a bf/gf as just the act of falling for someone.. <BR/><BR/>i agree that u should look for someone to complement u, but i think <I>being</I> in love allows u to express love for someone else in a way that DOES complete u.. i dnt think u can go thru life and say ur a 'whole' person without at least once being head over heels for someone...<BR/><BR/>so, perhaps 'society' pushing for us to be in love is in fact a way of wishing us happiness, thats all :)Gehanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16299640465175652895noreply@blogger.com