tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post742517573451796655..comments2023-05-10T08:43:17.593+01:00Comments on Ramblings of an Altruist: What hurts the most*PseudoRandomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01993144590186704387noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-54084886597278895082010-06-12T07:09:28.233+01:002010-06-12T07:09:28.233+01:00emo!!! lol :Demo!!! lol :DChavienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-60576135547881938802009-10-11T15:48:03.804+01:002009-10-11T15:48:03.804+01:00Half the time, I wanna whack these people who try ...Half the time, I wanna whack these people who try to 'help' by saying 'it's not that bad. You are such a nice person' in the head. HARD!<br />If I am such a nice person and etc etc, why the hell am I alone and feeling lonely every damned night then, Einstein?! <br /><br />Grrr...Sabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00466454275587313040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-35365624708415175592009-04-27T20:15:00.000+01:002009-04-27T20:15:00.000+01:00Chavie - thanks dude :-). Yeah I am proud of what ...<I>Chavie</I> - thanks dude :-). Yeah I am proud of what I've achieved...but sometimes this one 'failure' keeps gnawing at me and it's a big enough problem to offset all the achievements. I don't know why.<br /><br /><I>Gehan</I> - beautiful, isn't it? :-) And...you sure? Sure feels like I'm the only one from where I'm looking. And yeah I'm looking through the fumes...not holding my breath though :-(<br /><br /><I>Whack</I> - lol you and your Napoleon :P Yeah I know...but see what I told Chavie.<br /><br /><I>Darwin</I> - I know what you mean and usually I'm fine...but then sometimes without warning, the loneliness envelopes me and ruins everything. Sometimes I think it's made worse by the notion that society thinks single people are missing out...my insecurity is making me give into the hype.<br />As for things coming easy, it's not an opinion borne out of perception...I know for a fact that there haven't been as many potholes for a lot of people I know (not all). But yeah I get what you mean about the danger of comparisons.<br /><br /><I>N</I> - Yeah it is, actually :-) I'm trying...and most of the time it's OK. Hopefully with time these lapses will fade :-)<br /><br /><I>Sachintha</I> - Aww thanks man, that's great! :-)PseudoRandomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01993144590186704387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-80778565105228031502009-04-22T01:20:00.000+01:002009-04-22T01:20:00.000+01:00Hey I added you to my blogroll. Hope that's OK...Hey I added you to my blogroll. Hope that's OK...Sachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09737205005592917145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-63053238119266927982009-04-20T20:40:00.000+01:002009-04-20T20:40:00.000+01:00Well if it's any consolation...alone and helpless ...Well if it's any consolation...alone and helpless is a pretty common feeling for myself...but I've come to like my alone time and I work hard to overcome my helplessness:)Nhttp://intheconfusionandaftermath.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-49480952677453618862009-04-20T14:03:00.000+01:002009-04-20T14:03:00.000+01:00I personally think there are two ways of looking a...I personally think there are two ways of looking at one's life; count the failures/bad stuff or the successes/good stuff. If I were to look back on the past few months and list only all the bad things that have happened, I can very easily get depressed about everything and feel rather blue, to put it mildly. For the record, I could also hit back at someone with good intentions who tries to comfort me with a 'well, what would you know about losing a parent anyway?'. But I don't because it's not fair to.<br /><br />With regard to how things come easy for some people, it's possible that appearances are deceptive. Some people don't go on about how hard they worked at something to achieve what they have, but just because they don't talk about it doesn't mean it came on a silver platter either. What might seem effortless to you could weel have been a long hard road for them, they just don't talk about it much. So when you feel that you are starting to compare yourself to others (which imo is not a good thing to do anyway because its normal to have a negative bias) I guess you should tell yourself that perhaps you're overly influenced by this negative bias and maybe things aren't as bad as they seem/feel? (bad luck for you, goodluck for everyone else, and then it spirals downwards). Just a thought!Darwinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17662013387101984384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-88444447963944763482009-04-20T11:45:00.000+01:002009-04-20T11:45:00.000+01:00You know, napoleon had the worst luck with women a...You know, napoleon had the worst luck with women a man could ever dream of. But he went on to conquer most of europe in spite, or even because, of it. Greatness stems out of imbalance and harsh circumstances. So rock on.TheWhacksteRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16163713209619543202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-82254444267854127642009-04-20T05:40:00.000+01:002009-04-20T05:40:00.000+01:00oooh i LOVE that rendition.. ive had it for ages a...oooh i LOVE that rendition.. ive had it for ages and its one o my fav covers of all time! :)<br /><br />i dnt wanna be one o those ppl that console u with words that dnt help, so.. all ill say is ur not alone in ur thinking :)<br /><br />just...keep lookin thru the fumes yea? :DGehanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16299640465175652895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21657491.post-84999391733705644812009-04-20T03:27:00.000+01:002009-04-20T03:27:00.000+01:00Well PR, I can't say that I'm all knowing, or have...Well PR, I can't say that I'm all knowing, or have seen much in life, but there is a tendency for people who get everything easy in life to never appreciate what they get. And they throw their luck (or life) away with the same ease that they got it. <br /><br />For example, I had this brilliant brilliant uncle. He was the the younger sibling to a doctor, and he came from a very wealthy family in Kandy. So he also becomes a doctor, does all the exams quick and easy. (he's brilliant no?) He's a really nice person, but he never finds his special someone. He goes deeper and deeper into vices, drinking and smoking and destroying himself. He comes back to Sri Lanka, never practices medicine here, uses his mothers money to drink and continue his destructive lifestyle. 3 years ago, he had a stroke and died. Such a brilliant man, but he died penniless. And left his mother penniless too. Thank god for his brother, or there wouldn't have been anyone to look after his mom. <br /><br />So, my point is, play to your strengths. If you're a good chemist, do that. If you're a bad drinker, don't do that. And let's face it, by this time next year, you'll be walking out of there, young and more qualified than most people will be in their whole lifetimes. You've got a lot to be proud of, don't you? :)Chavienoreply@blogger.com