Friday, April 30, 2010

What do you do?

Listening to: Radio 1

What do you do when you feel the all too familiar sword of rejection piercing through your core? You gather your girl friends around, curse every boy ever to walk the planet, and pig out on chocolate ice cream while watching crappy romcoms. Camaraderie and sisterly love (and a lot of hugs) get you through, and get you back on your feet and ready to face the world again.

What do you do when you don't have any girl friends nearby? You hold back the tears, swallow the disappointment, put on a smiley face, sneak in a blog post when nobody's looking, and dive into work. All the while hoping that when you finally break down ('cos it will happen), you'll be alone in your room, unable to make a fool of yourself.


I suppose it is a plus point that I didn't humiliate myself this time...makes a change. It's good to know I'm learning from past mistakes. Now if only I could learn from the mistake of falling in the first place!

P.S.- If you're about to tell me that my time will come, please don't. I don't need to be patronised right now.


  1. Just *HUGS!*... and I'm sorry! :(

  2. Like I already said, you definitely have a gf in me. Hugs. And his loss. What a chav!

  3. All I can say is I probably know what it feels like...


    it's hard.. but you will realise why some things don't happen later..

    and most men are idiots. they don't know an angel when they see one..:)


  4. like scrumpy said, his bloody loss. and your gf's may not physically be nearby. but i do believe you've got quite a few online gfs. (hug)

  5. Bugger. Hope you feel a bit less blue now. That's not a patronising thing to say right? :)

  6. I think the feeling blue has to do with your blog being 50% blue.

  7. Thanks guys :-) (yes Jerry, even you :P )


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